1 Timothy 5:8 says, “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
Honor is a decision we make to place high value, worth, and importance on another person by viewing him or her as a priceless gift and granting him or her a position in our lives worthy of great respect; and love involves putting that decision into action.” Gary Smalley (Family Counselor & Author)
As a parent, honoring our children is an act of obedience to God. It shapes the way our children grow into people of purpose. In the same manner, children are asked to honor their parents, this is the first commandment with a promise. In the 5th of the 10 Commandments, honor implies submission, which implies obedience. Children who have not become independent or mature adults are under the authority of their parent(s), so they are to honor or yield to them.
We should practice honoring those that carved our path before we were able to do it for ourselves. Sometimes all it takes is a call to our family members to talk or trade stories or just listening to them honors them as family. This effort could completely change the frictions that often take place in the family dynamic.
Practice honesty, empathy, and honor, this could pay dividends beyond our wildest imagination.
PRAYER: Dear God, help us to obey your commands and in doing so we not only honor you but also those who are part of our family. We thank you that you have given us a great example when you sent your only Son, Jesus, to die for us, showing us your great love. We honor you for the greatest gift anyone could ever receive. It’s in Jesus’ name we pray – Amen!
